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CrossTies by Dr.
Bill Denton
Dr. Bill Denton has
served in church ministry for more than 30 years. He is an experienced preacher, teacher, radio
speaker, and instructor in short-term missions training foreign ministry students. He is also a
Licensed Clinical Pastoral Counselor, and former director of a Christian Counseling Center. Bill's
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The Erring Brother
My brethren, if any among you strays from the
truth and one turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way
will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins. (James 5:19-20, NASB95)
People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered. Love them anyway.
If you are kind,
people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are successful,
you will win some false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.
The good you do today
will be forgotten tomorrow. Be good anyway.
Honesty and frankness will make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build
anyway.
People need help but may attack you if you try to help them. Help them
anyway.
In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them
anyway.
Kent M. Keith, "The Paradoxical Commandments,"
from The Silent Revolution: Dynamic Leadership in the Student
Council
We have a
responsibility to help brothers and sisters in Christ who have strayed from the truth of Gods
word, and somehow become embroiled in the ways of the world. It is not an easy thing to do.
Sometimes, those who have chosen to live contrary to truth do not want our help. Sometimes, they
exhibit a spirit of rebellion so strong that they reject any well-intentioned help. In fact, I
cannot think of anyone living in error who displays a completely God-like attitude devoid of the
influences of their error. Of course, at times we try to be magnanimous about things, and point out
that erring brothers and sisters are the only kind of brothers and sisters we have. The
point, I think, is that everyone we know needs help to be true to God.
I believe that
little quip is true. The only brothers and sisters I have are erring brothers and
sisters. There is one thing that gets lost on some people, however, and its worth mentioning
here. The only kind of brothers and sisters that our erring brothers and sisters have are also
erring brothers and sisters. Did I lose you on that one? What Im trying to say is that if you
think of others as erring then should you not also give yourself the same
description?
Some Christians seem to have the attitude that error is always the
other guys problem. Hopefully, that is true, for if we are following Gods will as best
we can, then surely well be more right than wrong. But, we must avoid the pride-filled,
self-righteous attitude that afflicts the hearts of more than a few Christians that leads us to
discount the possibility of our own error.
Someone once said that when we point our finger
at the other guy, there are three pointing back at us. Thats a good observation. Yes, we can,
and should, be sensitive to those who allow error to creep into their lives. When that happens, we
must love them and help them, even if they dont always display the best of attitudes and
behaviors. But we must be aware that we are also prone to errors, and sometimes we need help from
others. At times, the erring brother is us. © Copyright 2006,
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